IS THIS LOVE... THAT I'M FEELING!!

LOVE VS. LUST

CUPIDS LOVE DUST.... DOPAMINE???

WITH THE CONSTANT CHANGES OF RELATIONSHIP STATUSES ON FACEBOOK AND THE SEVERAL DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIP OPTIONS ON FACEBOOK IT MAKES ONE QUESTION THE AUTHENTICITY OF THESE SO CALLED RELATIONSHIPS. HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE IN LOVE? IS THIS LUST? WHAT IS LOVE? WHAT IS LUST? WELL I'M NO EXPERT, HOWEVER I HAVE DONE SOME RESEARCH AND I WANT TO SHARE LOVE VS. LUST AND DOPAMINE CUPIDS LOVE DUST... YOU MAY ASK WHAT IS DOPA MINE... CONTINUE YOUR READING TO BE ENLIGHTENED!!

LOVE

DEFINITION: A DECISION TO COMMIT ONESELF TO ANOTHER AND TO WORK THROUGH CONFLICTS INSTEAD OF GIVING UP.

SIGNS OF LOVE

• YOU WANT TO SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER OTHER THAN SEX.
• YOU GET LOST IN CONVERSATIONS AND FORGET ABOUT THE HOURS PASSING.
• YOU WANT TO HONESTLY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER'S FEELINGS, MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY.
• HE OR SHE MOTIVATES YOU TO BE A BETTER PERSON.
• YOU WANT TO GET TO MEET HIS OR HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
ASSOCIATED WITH PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY OVER A FAIRLY LONG PERIOD OF TIME. INTIMACY, COMMITMENT, SECURITY, THE DESIRE TO PLEASE AND HELP THE OTHER PERSON.
LOVE PRODUCES SUCH SYMPTOMS AS FAITHFULNESS  CONFIDENCE, WILLINGNESS TO MAKE SACRIFICES FOR ANOTHER. WORKING AT SETTLING DIFFERENCES. ABILITY TO COMPROMISE.
WHEN COMBINED WITH LUST, SECURITY AND PEACE A SOLID PARTNERSHIP CAN BE FORMED. WHICH IS THE IDEAL SITUATION TO RAISE CHILDREN WHO ARE CONFIDENT, AND SECURE.
LOVE IS VERY OFTEN MISTAKEN BY LUST WHICH IS VERY EASY TO DO. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AN LUST IS THAT EVENTUALLY LUST RUNS OUT. THAT LEAVES YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS FULL OF RESENTMENT AND REGRET.
LUST
DEFINITION: ANY INTENSE DESIRE OR CRAVING FOR GRATIFICATION, WHEN CONTRASTED WITH LOVE, LUST SIMPLY MEANS SEXUAL DESIRE.
ASSOCIATED WITH PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY OVER A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. PUT SIMPLY SEXUAL DESIRE. ENJOYMENT OF SHORT-TERM, MUTUALLY PLEASURABLE RELATIONSHIP.

CUPID'S DUST..... DOPAMINE


 DEFINITION:  THERE ARE SEVERAL DIFFERENT TECHNICAL DEFINITIONS FOR  WORD DOPAMINE SUCH AS, DOPAMINE IS A NEUROTRANSMITTER, ONE OF THOSE CHEMICALS THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR TRANSMITTING SIGNALS  BETWEEN THE NERVE CELLS (NEURONS) OF THE BRAIN...  WHEN DOPAMINE NEURONS BECOME ACTIVATED, THEY RELEASE DOPAMINE.... SO BASICALLY THE BUTTERFLIES AND LIGHTHEADED  FEELING THAT YOU GET WHEN YOU BEGAN DATING SOMEONE NEW WHOM IS VERY SPECIAL TO YOU IS ... DOPAMINE!! LUST IS FUELED BY DOPAMINE!!!


SO THAT I CAN'T EAT CAN'T SLEEP TALK ON THE PHONE INTO THE WEE HOURS OF THE MORNING... TIME IS FROZEN AND ITS ONLY THE TWO OF YOU IN THE MOMENT... BEWARE! THIS MAYBE THAT YOU ARE IN LUST NOT LOVE! 


SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU MISTAKE LUST FOR FOR LOVE? AND YOU HAVE BEEN WITH SOMEONE FOR A YEAR OR SO AND YOU JUST DON'T FEEL THE SAME ASK YOURSELF ARE YOU IN LOVE OR LUST?


- "AND THIS THAT SHIT THAT'LL MAKE YOU CALL YOUR BABY MOMA WHEN YOU GONE ON HALF A PILL, DON'T KNOW WHY BUT THAT'S HOW IT IS THEN YOU TAKE A FLIGHT BACK TO THE CRIB, Y'ALL MAKE LOVE LIKE COLLEGE KIDS AND YOU SAY ALL THE SHIT YOU GON' DO BETTER, WE CAN TRY THIS SHIT AGAIN. ROUND THE TIME THE DOPE WEAR OFF, YOU FEEL STUPID, SHE FEEL LOST THAT'S THAT DOPE, I MEAN , I MEAN DOPAMINE YOU THINK CUPID DONE WORE OFF" - ANDRE 3000