Tuesday, February 12, 2013

BEHIND EVERY STRONG MAN... THERE IS AN EVEN STRONGER WOMAN

    "I GOT NOTHING BUT LOVE FOR YOU BABY"

 I WANTED TO DO A BLOG ON AFRICAN AMERICAN CELEBRITY COUPLES WHO INSPIRED ME AND WHOSE LOVE I LOVE. I CONSTANTLY SEE ON DIFFERENT SOCIAL MEDIA SITES WOMEN WHO SAY THEY WANT THE SAME LOVE EXHIBITED BY SOME OF THE COUPLES THAT I WILL PRESENT HERE.

 MY QUESTION TO THOSE WOMEN IS ARE YOU PREPARED TO DO THE WORK REQUIRED TO HAVE THE TYPE OF LOVE YOU DREAM OF? IS IT TRULY LOVE YOU WANT OR IS IT LUST? IS THE IMAGE REALLY THE DRIVING FORCE BEHIND YOUR GOAL TO OBTAIN TRUE LOVE? A LOT OF WOMEN ARE CONSTANTLY QUESTIONING WHETHER THERE IS A SUCH THING A TRUE LOVE? WITH ALL THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS THERE ARE TODAY EX. (POLYGAMY) DOES MONOGAMY EXIST IN 2013?
 
I WOULD LIKE FEED BACK AND GENERAL CONVERSATION ON ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS AND MORE. SOMETHING THAT I HAVE KNOW FOR SURE IN MY OWN MARRIAGE IS THAT YOU CAN'T BASE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER OFF OF ANYONE ELSE. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT GOES ON BEHIND CLOSED DOORS HOWEVER IT IS HEALTHY TO ADMIRE DIFFERENT COUPLES LOVE.

BARACK AND MICHELLE OBAMA
THE FIRST COUPLE WOULD HAVE TO BE OUR PRESIDENT AND FIRST LADY; BARACK OBAMA AND MICHELLE OBAMA. THEY ARE THE EPITOME OF SUCCESS AND LOVE WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP I SEE PEOPLE WHO DESPITE THEIR POSITION OF POWER HAVE REMAINED GROUNDED. (THERE ARE NO BIG I'S OR LITTLE U'S) IN THIS UNION WHICH I FIND INCREDIBLE GIVEN THEIR POSITIONS. THE RESPECT AND LOVE IS APPARANT IN THIS UNION AND IT IS BEAUTIFUL!


THE SECOND COUPLE IS BEYONCE AND JAY Z! ALTHOUGH THEY RECIEVE A LOT OF FLACK FOR NOT LIVING THEIR LIVES MORE PUBLICLY. I COMMEND THEM FOR THIS VERY THING. KEEPING A BOUNDARY BETWEEN PERSONAL AND CELEBRITY IS VITAL AND I FEEL THE KEY TO THEIR LOVE. THEY ARE BOTH SO CONFIDENT IN THEMSELVES THAT THERE IS  NO COMPETION THERE IS ONLY TEAM WORK WHICH IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT!

THE THIRD COUPLE IS T.I. AND TINY HARRIS. THEY GOT THAT HOOD LOVE AND IT IS AWESOME. NOW WE ALL KNOW THAT I HAVE MY OPINONS ON A WOMAN "HOLDING A MAN DOWN" WHILE HE IS INCARCERATED HOWEVER I MADE A EXCEPTION FOR THIS COUPLE. NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE CELEBRITY MORE SO BECAUSE IT WAS MORE THEN LACK LUSTER DATING. THERE WAS A COMMITMENT THERE; THEY WERE MARRIED WITH CHILDREN AND HE ALSO HAD A PROMISING CAREER WAITING ON HIM. I LOVE THEIR LOVE.... ITS THE KING B**CH!!! #HUSTLEGANG

THE FORTH POWER COUPLE IS WILL SMITH AND JADA SMITH. THESE TWO HAVE BEEN UNITED FOR 16 YEARS. WHILE THERE HAS BEEN RUMOR AND SPECULATION OF THEM SPLITING I REALLY SEE THESE TWO TOGETHER FOREVER RAISING THEIR CHILDREN AND CONTINUING TO BE SUCCESFUL. I LOVE HOW JADA'S DOMINANCE DOES NOT APPEAR TO INTIMADATE WILL, AGAIN THAT GOES WITH BEING ONE WITH ONESELF!

2 comments:

  1. True love has nothing to do with fame money and power. Love come from deep within. Two broke people can have more love that would shock celebs like jay z and B. A real woman stand beside her man hand and hand against the world.

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  2. I think these are great examples of Black Love and yes marriage does take an outstanding amount of work take it from someone who knows but with GOD first everything will fall in place and yes regular people can have just as much of not more Love than celebrity but don't get caught up in that and miss the true purpose of this blog people its to show the world that marriage does still exist and van last if we all work at it P.S. I Love My Black Queen Mrs. BT

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